In middle age, apart from the endpoint of life getting closer, everything else is gradually drifting away.

In human life, every encounter is one less encounter. Whether it's noise or loneliness, it's better to greet every meeting with a sense of gratitude, then let go and learn to accept.

Our lives are filled with labels such as age, identity, future, family, parents, children, and meaning, to the extent that we neglect the feelings, heartbeats, experiences, and joys that are most worth cherishing.

In the end, you have eaten everything, yet you don't know the taste; you've been everywhere, yet you have no impression; you know many things, yet your mind is still empty.

In fact, the meaning of many things is like grains of rice hidden among a pile of stones; we spend a lot of time to find the grains, but after finding them, you feel that "after all this effort to find it, it really isn't worth it at all."

How a person spends their life to be considered meaningful has a thousand different answers in a thousand people's eyes. But what is the same is that everyone works hard for their own passions and obsessions, for the life they want.

This life has no meaning in the first place, and whatever meaning you give it, it has meaning. Your life is up to you, whether it's complicated or simple, wonderful or mediocre, as long as it's the way you like, it's worth it.

A person's hand is just that big, and there are too many things that cannot be held. It is good to be sincere to people and to do your best in matters.

The heart is only as big as a fist; don't try to hold everything inside, as it can't bear too much burden.

I hope the place you want to go is where you truly wish to be, not where others want you to go; I hope your strength comes from within, not from the approval and praise of others.

#80后 Midlife #人生感悟 Healing #Growth