Why do you always think of past pains, constantly ruminating and chewing on them, unable to stop? Is it because you are blaming others? In fact, you are blaming yourself; you blame yourself for not being in a perfect state at every moment, you blame yourself for not responding better at that time. But in reality, at every moment, we have already done our best, and at every moment, we have actually created a so-called foolproof strategy. All your actions are for better self-protection. You may have experienced a childhood that was forcibly corrected, where no matter what you did, you could not receive a definitive compliment. But now we have grown up, and whenever you recall those painful memories again, you must tell yourself, it's okay, I can travel back to the past and embrace that lonely and helpless inner child. I can tell myself that I don't have to be perfect all the time. #成长值抽奖赢iPhone17和周边 #市场触底了吗？ #美联储官员集体发声