I think I understand why many people are trapped — the core is often fear of the unknown, the unbearable state of indecision, the desire for immediate feedback.

This feeling is so real. From childhood to adulthood, we've actually been living with various fears: afraid of forgetting to wear the red scarf, afraid of not finishing homework, afraid of criticism, afraid of doing poorly on exams, afraid of being laughed at, afraid of being bullied… And life is sometimes just like that: the more you fear something, the easier it is to encounter it. If you stop being afraid, stop panicking, you can face everything — soldiers will block incoming threats, water will be diverted around obstacles.

So, we need to train ourselves to develop endurance in uncertainty. Engage in practices that bring positive feedback, but also stay clear: some things can give you immediate satisfaction, experiencing that is fine, but don’t get lost in it.

Just like in business KOLs, love isn't necessarily involved; being a big brother might have nothing to do with love either. Yet they still flood you with intense emotional value, making it hard to resist.

Not long ago, I experienced a one-day “love.” At the end, she told me: “You’ve seen the lowest and the highest, you’ll go further and better.”
At that moment, I was stunned, my heart fluttered slightly. I couldn’t even tell what that touch was — was it the warmth of being seen, or some kind of compassionate gift? Even a fleeting romance can make you say words that energize you. It turns out, this world is full of unexpected “echoes” everywhere.

When something can bring certain, abundant feedback, it's hard not to repeat it.

Recently, a few friends have become “big brothers” on TikTok — compared to here, the cost is lower, like a kind of dimensionality reduction game. Spending tens of thousands to protect several girls, along with the CEO of a certain overseas listed company, having a great time.
I also borrowed one of their accounts to try it out — interacting with them, it’s truly addictive; the joy comes directly and lightly.

So, what’s your view?
When feedback is so immediate, when companionship is so easy, and everything is happening in the way you want —
Are you sober-minded, or are you intoxicated?

Or, maybe, ta is different —— 风无向@Web3Feng