I have never quite understood why many people in unhappy marriages always complain a lot but just don't get divorced.

One question is that the child needs a father, and the other question is the hope to provide the child with a complete home.

But is it really for the child? Or is the child just a good excuse for oneself? Lacking the courage to take responsibility for one's own future, one can always say, look! It's all for you, that's why I did this or that!

I have a friend who, after having a child, was treated badly by her husband. They argued every day and sometimes even got physical, and in the end, they separated. But because they often argued and got physical in front of the child, the child became autistic.