After playing in this circle for so many years, I gradually understand a truth—how long you can sit at the table is far more important than earning quick profits.



The first few years were too naive. Newcomers come in with shining eyes, full of words like "double" and "all in." They don’t understand anything, just thinking of going all in, but when the market turns, their principal evaporates instantly, and they lose the qualification to continue playing. The market is brutal and won’t show mercy.

I myself have also fallen under this spell. The pits I’ve stepped into could pile up into mountains, but the most painful lessons are just two words: greed. Wanting to add to your position after making some profit, unwilling to leave after losing. The result? Either watching profits slowly slip away or being forced out completely.

Later, I finally figured it out—those who survive the longest, deep down, have a bit of "timidity." They haven’t never made money, but they know when to admit defeat:

Avoid frequent trading. People who watch the charts and trade every day usually end up losing the most. The real profit-makers are those who act according to a plan and only move when it’s appropriate.

Don’t expect to catch every wave. People who always want to buy at the bottom and sell at the top never succeed. The ones who make money are those who take profits when it’s time and exit.

Take profits when you have them, cut losses when you don’t. This sounds simple, but few actually do it. Many treat "diversified holdings" as a cure-all, ending up buying a bunch of bad coins that all fall together. Others think "holding heavy" is some kind of faith, but it’s just self-soothing. The market doesn’t care about your emotions; it only amplifies every mistake you make.

Three things you must remember:

**Floating gains are not real money.** Your account shows a million in profit? Many have seen it shrink to ten thousand at critical moments. Only the money that’s secured in your pocket is truly yours.

**Stop-loss is life-saving.** No one likes admitting defeat, but better to cut losses early and exit than wait to be completely wiped out. A single liquidation can ruin your chances for the next few cycles.

**The market won’t run away.** Missing this wave of gains isn’t the end of the world, but if you blow up your account, you’re truly out. The entire crypto cycle might then have nothing to do with you.

The market runs every day, opportunities are always there. But if you’re too impatient, greedy, or itchy-fingered, the market will teach you a lesson. This isn’t a race to see who can rush faster; it’s about who can endure until the end. If you really want to survive here, learn to wait first.
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SingleForYearsvip
· 01-09 04:38
To be honest, I am now someone who has been beaten up like this. I was stunned the moment my account shrank.
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VibesOverChartsvip
· 01-07 20:50
That hit too close to home. I'm the opposite example of someone who gets liquidated every day from watching the market haha --- The phrase "floating gains are not real money" really should be tattooed on me --- Cowardice is the secret to living longer. I now have a deep understanding of this --- Every time I try to buy the dip or sell at the top, I end up getting trapped and wiped out --- Stop-loss is a lifesaver. This is a blood and tears lesson I learned from my liquidation experience --- Trading infrequently really makes more money. I tried not touching the market for a while and started seeing profits --- Those friends who went all-in on a gamble are now silent --- The market won't run away—that's the truth. Living longer by making quick money is the real key --- Greed sums up all my failures in the first three years --- I've seen many people who always want to finish every wave, but in the end, they lose everything
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GasBankruptervip
· 01-07 20:50
I totally agree. Those guys who trade frequently really die the fastest. A single liquidation can ruin your next several cycles, I'm not joking. Unrealized gains are just an illusion; I've been fooled too many times. Living a long life is the real key; there's no need to rush.
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SleepTradervip
· 01-07 20:42
Really, the set of frequent trading does the most harm. The people around me all died this way. --- That statement was too harsh, it hit too many of my pain points. --- The words "stop loss" are simple, but how many people have been forced out when doing it? --- I have a strong feeling about unrealized gains; the numbers on the account can't tell the whole story. --- Waiting is easy to say, but I really can't stop my fingers haha. --- Probably none of the all-in players are left now. Truly a once-in-a-lifetime sight. --- "Cowardice" is actually the best secret to living the longest. That phrase is perfect. --- I've seen many people trading every day, and indeed, they all lose the most. --- The market is always there, I love hearing that, but I just can't control myself.
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StealthDeployervip
· 01-07 20:32
That's so true, witnessing real growth is truly rare. I used to be that kind of fool who stared at the K-line every day, and as a result, I lost the most. Really, watching paper gains feels good but doesn't count at all, and at critical moments, the shrinkage is the fastest. Now I just set stop-losses and run, not caring about catching the full wave. --- Admitting defeat is actually a skill. Nine out of ten people who boast about their all-in bets making big money have already gone silent. --- The most terrifying thing is holding a heavy position and stubbornly sticking to it. I've seen too many people get eliminated due to a wrong decision, and then they miss the entire cycle. --- It sounds simple but is actually very difficult. Most people simply can't cut losses early and run; they have to wait until liquidation before regretting. --- I've deeply experienced that the market can't run forever. It's better to miss a wave of gains than to let a liquidation ruin future opportunities.
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