There are too many men around me who are not lacking in ability or effort; it's just that family matters always hold them back.

Elderly parents are hospitalized, but the wife doesn't take care of them;
Children go to school, but the wife doesn't ask about them;
Household chores always wait for him to come home and handle.
After a busy day outside, he's so exhausted he can't even straighten his back,
And when he gets home, he's faced with a mess of trivialities,
No matter how talented he is,
These household issues drain his energy and spirit,
Leaving him with no strength to pursue his career.